Helpful Ideas for Family Renovations By Jerry A. Chenault, Urban Regional Extension Agent, Lauderdale County

Amazed at the family problems seen so often in today's society? Can't believe all the new "super nanny" television shows for failed parents? You're not alone. Chances are that most families could use a vitamin B12 shot of family time and activities, especially when research reveals that youngsters are 12 times more likely to watch TV than engage in household conversations. Add to this a busy schedule of activities, such as church, baseball, soccer, music lessons, or gymnastics, and we can stop wondering why families don't relate well today.

Here is a list of ideas that parents can use to bond with their kids.

Dinner and a movie: Spend an evening whipping up a theme meal to accompany a favorite movie. For example, watch the "Lady and The Tramp" while eating spaghetti. Why not make the night a learning experience and make an ethnic dish and watch an international film? I think you get the idea. But whatever you do, make sure each family member has a role in making the night a success, then finish up with a tasty theme dessert.

Low impact outdoor games: Full contact tackle football probably doesn't fit the bill, but badminton, croquette, horseshoes, Frisbee tossing, or a basketball shooting game of Horse might be the ticket for family fun.

Crafty projects: Find the right project and you're guaranteed success! Ideas might include homemade birdfeeders, a scarecrow for the garden, a family totem pole, a family banner, or even stringing popcorn and fruit for wildlife.

Family game night: It might seem like this idea wouldn't need to be mentioned, but it may be rare in our world today. Try playing games like UNO, Twister, Sorry, Pictionary, Monopoly, and others to bring your family together around the table like we used to do.

Eating in the wilderness: We normally think of picnics as something we can do, yet rarely do, but how about a breakfast picnic at the park? Keep it simple with juice boxes, muffins, fruit, and yogurt; then go play! Breakfast at a restaurant is also a treat for some families. One of my children's best memories is a picnic on the roof of our house! They loved it! Just plain ole eating together is a good way for families to interact these days.

Family video/photo night: How about sitting down and watching your own family videos together, or looking at family photo albums together? We all love to see ourselves in action; but don't forget the popcorn!

Camp out in tame surroundings: Rather than trouble the family with a wilderness outing, how about camping in your own backyard? Less packing is involved and you can still have an adventure in a tent. You can also cook a meal over some coals or with an inexpensive grill at ground level, but don't forget the smores!

Of course there are other things you can do together like hiking, walking, a family bicycle ride, or even a surprise lunch (picnic) with the kids at school or in a park. The main thing is to turn OFF the television and do something together as a family! What great things we could accomplish if we'd only give it a try! I will--will you?

Parker, Wayne. (2006). Family night: Simple and powerful. Fatherhood. Retrieved September 13, 2006.

Parker, Wayne. (2006). Top 10 ways to spend quality time with the kids. Fatherhood. Retrieved September 13, 2006.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. (2006). Family activities. Home and Family Section. Retrieved September 13, 2006.

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