Ellen Abell, ACES family and child development
specialist, says it is vital that children have input into camp
choices.
"Camps can be so much fun for young people. But
if a child isn't matched to a camp or program that interests him, he
could be miserable," she says. "For example, parents of a
child very interested in science and computers may be tempted to
select a sports camp to expose the child to something new."
That's probably not a good move. A better choice,
Abell says, would be to select a science camp that includes sports
or group play activities on a daily basis. This ensures the child's
primary interests are met while at the same time addressing mom and
dad's concern that the child be more physically active.
Camps can provide valuable opportunities for
children to grow and mature.
"They are great ways to help children develop
social skills," says Abell. "Just being in a new
environment where there are no preconceived notions about the child
can help the child blossom."
Parents are always concerned about determining if
their child is ready for camp, especially residential camps.
Abell says parents should think about several issues
when trying to determine a child's readiness for camp.
First, consider the child's social comfort level.
How does the child handle unfamiliar situations? If unfamiliar
situations cause a child significant stress, camp may not be
appropriate yet. Abell adds that having a friend going to the same
camp or knowing an adult who will chaperone or act as a camp
counselor can help alleviate the stress of unfamiliar situations.
"While the situation is new and the child has
to deal with this, there is also the comfort of a friendly
face," she says.
Next, consider the child's experience at being away
from home and parents. A child who is comfortable spending the night
away from mom and dad will most likely find the adjustment to
overnight camp easier.
Finally, consider how high is the child's interest
in attending the camp or in the camp's focus.
"If a child's interest is high enough and the
desire to attend is strong, these can override a child's concern
with the unfamiliar nature of camp."
Abell recommends parents do their homework when
selecting camps as well.
"Don't make decisions solely on the basis of
slick brochures," says Abell. "If possible, visit the camp
before making any decisions. Ask about staff qualifications and
training. Ask about child supervision policies, program activities,
and the amount of free and structured time, to be sure these are
appropriate for their child’s age and maturity level."
Parents should also investigate a camp's record
including staffing ratios, safety and emergency medical guidelines,
and even the health rating for the camp kitchen.
"For parents to have confidence in their
choices, it's crucial they make informed decisions," she says.
SOURCE: Dr. Ellen Abell, Family and Child
Development Specialist, Alabama Cooperative Extension System (334)
844-4480